The days of being a spiritual mentor in Meiman

The Robins from the main universe were shocked by the return of the Wayne couple, but not so shocked, because their shock quota has been used up during this period of time, and after continuous intense emotions, people tend to enter In a state of numbness, there will be no strong emotional ups and downs for everything that appears in front of you. Robins are in this state now.

Nightwing is studying the artifacts he got from Mount Olympus, and practicing how to combine them with his usual combat methods. Red Hood is still reminiscing about what he saw and heard along with Schiller, and he has been addicted to psychology these days Studying books, Red Robin is recovering from his injuries, and is pushed to the yard by Alfred to bask in the sun on time every day.

Martha felt very sympathetic to the experiences of the Robins, so she played the role of a female elder in a big family as much as possible, taking care of the basic necessities of the juniors, asking them how they were, and gently solving their confusion.

In fact, Thomas and Martha also have differences in the education of their children, and because of the hardening of their personalities brought about by the crazy torment for so many years, the degree of this difference can basically be described as: fortunately, Bruce died early.

Thomas is a strict father in the traditional sense. His educational method is to show his majesty, and then drive the children to learn the knowledge and skills necessary for survival. Martha is a loving mother in the traditional sense. Feel loved and complete their personality.

Logically speaking, such a family structure is already perfect, but it is inevitable that Thomas will feel that Martha is too doting on the children, and Martha will feel that Thomas is putting too much pressure on them, which is almost all strict fathers and mothers. problems faced by the family.

And once they have a confrontation in this regard, the children will naturally be divided into two factions because of their different attitudes towards education, as is the case with the Robins.

Both Nightwing and Red Hood prefer Martha, they enjoy tender care and attention to detail, but they are also insensitive to Thomas' aggressive and oppressive parenting methods.

While Elsa and Damian both have a better relationship with Thomas, Elsa will like Thomas more, purely because younger children are more used to relying on authority, and they think it is very important to have someone telling them how to do things all the time. Something to feel safe about.

As for Damian, needless to say, he is purely the king of roll kings, and he feels that he is the chosen heir. In the past, because he was the youngest in the Bat family, everyone regarded him as a child, but this time Finally able to show his strengths, of course he would like to follow Thomas to familiarize himself with the various affairs of the Wayne Group.

And Red Robin is more interested in Bruce. He found that Batman in this universe has endless secrets that can be explored, so even if the injury is not healed, he sticks to Bruce every day and does research with him.

And the smaller Robins can be roughly divided into: I'm almost exhausted from ballet and culture classes, so don't try to run away, Although I'm the same person as you, but I just don't The rebellious type who makes the same choice as you, the super fan group type who thinks the idols are all Batman, so we will be invincible together, and Harley, the I love to watch it at my doorstep. Lively is not too big.

Logically speaking, it is not a problem to live in the largest manor in Gotham with more than a dozen people, and it is impossible to be crowded, but these dozens of nested relationships make the Wayne family live in the manor in a kind of way. The feeling of black and white.

Although many people will call Batman and his friends the Bat Family, in fact the Bat Family does not meet the definition of a family because the Bat Family's class is not clear enough.

The structure of the Bat family can be roughly described as one super and many strong. Batman is a super leader, his power and prestige are greater than all others, and the power of all the remaining members is leveled. Simply put, it is the so-called Family Love.

Even if Nightwing and Red Hood came earlier and older than Damian, they don't have full educational power when Damian loses his temper or gets into trouble, because they are still equal brothers, and there is no class points.

What unites this family is love rather than interest, so class and power cannot be derived naturally.

The Bat family is like a utopia. There is a truly omniscient and omnipotent patriarch who can convince everyone. Everyone else is united and friendly, and they do not oppress each other, just for the belief in their hearts.

But the biggest problem here is that the Bat family lacks social education for young children. The groups united in this way are a very small number in society, and naturally they cannot provide any normal human society to their members. social experience.

Wherever human beings exist, there are classes, either open or dark, which is an essential social stage in the evolution of intelligent races. How to accept the influence of others and how to influence others is a must for every teenager before entering society A class called Socialized Education.

Once this kind of education is missing, it will lead to social skill deficits such as being overly influenced by others and being unable to influence others, which will lead to a dangerous state of being controlled by others or closing oneself.

Forcibly leveling all classes in a group is not a good thing. It is not fundamentally eliminating classes, but avoiding socialization, which is an evasive attitude.

For example, there is no power difference between Nightwing, who is the oldest and most mature in the Bat-family, and who is also the most trusted by Batman, and Damian, who is young and late to join the group, which will cause Damian to get into trouble. Can't help it, Ye Yi went to clean up the mess for him, and he wouldn't learn his lesson, so he dared to do it next time.

Over time, the relationship between the two will not become more harmonious because of this, because the constant tolerance and regression of one party in a relationship is actually at the expense of emotional consumption, which is not healthy.

Learning to obey dignified individuals in the group is as important as learning to establish dignity in the group. This is because the social genes selected from the best of the group living creatures ensure the normal operation of the group.

In the process of doing these two things, human beings learn to understand the emotions of others, and also show their social signals to others by releasing their emotions, so as to obtain emotional feedback from others and provide emotional feedback to others. essential social needs.

And a big family with multiple classes is the perfect place for socialized education. If the Bat Family in the main universe is compared to a high school where only teachers are majestic, then Wayne Manor at this moment is more like a university.

The Wayne couple is undoubtedly the highest-ranking existence in this big family, because they are older and have the largest seniority. At the same time, they bear the expenses of the family's food, clothing, housing and transportation, and have the greatest distribution of wealth and resources.

Next came Bruce and Alfred, because Bruce gained everyone's trust with his ability, and Alfred was given the responsibility of managing and taking care of the family by the parents.

And there is more than one group of children, they can be roughly divided into big children and young children, outsiders and aborigines, fathers and mothers, and can even be subdivided into learning groups and sports groups, daytime active groups and night active groups .

This constitutes an extremely complicated interpersonal relationship, making the entire Wayne Manor a complex society similar to the real society, and everyone needs to learn to find their own position in this society.

It is actually a very valuable skill to position yourself through the evaluation of yourself by people with different positions, and then evaluate others based on your own position, because it is necessary to have a stable personality, self-consistent logic and Controlled emotions.

And when such a big family gets together, no matter what they do, they are doing countless social strengthening training.

To give the simplest example, when everyone in Wayne Manor gathered for a meal together for the first time, it was a big test for the Robins.

Thomas and Martha had received aristocratic education and were also proficient in some educational skills, so when they walked to the dining table, they deliberately slowed down to observe how the children chose their seats.

Without even thinking about it, Bruce sat on the eldest son's seat on the right, and continued to calculate the data needed for research in his mind, but in this case, Ye Yi, who was originally sitting on the eldest son's seat, would have no place to sit.

Ye Yi seemed a little at a loss, because he didn't know who the seat opposite Bruce was for. If he sat there, would there be no place for Martha to sit?

Martha was very kind to everyone, if I took her position and made her feel embarrassed, wouldn't it be revenge, if I made such a mistake, would it cause public outrage?

Ye Yi slowed down his pace, his attitude became a little cautious, and the seemingly rough-looking Red Hood who was actually quite observant also saw the problem. If Ye Yi wasn't sure about his seat, he couldn't be sure, because If he made sure first, it would be equivalent to helping Ye Yi make sure, so what if he made a wrong decision?

And Red Robin coughed softly, and Nightwing and Red Hood immediately looked at him with distressed eyes, because they knew that Tim was educated by the nobility, and he must know what to do.

At this time, Red Robin turned to look at Alfred next to him. Alfred pushed his wheelchair to the seat on the same side as Bruce, but moved the chair away, and then moved the wheelchair Pushed over.

Nightwing and Red Hood breathed a sigh of relief at the same time, because it meant that they made the right choice not to act rashly, and the position opposite Bruce was indeed reserved for Martha.

So Nightwing sat down beside Bruce, and Red Hood sat across from him.

Then it was the turn of the younger generation to choose seats, and another question arose, they were not in the same group as the outsiders, so should Dick sit opposite the Red Robin, or should he form a separate line and keep Dick and Jack? Mori's formation?

After hesitating for a while, Dick still chose to sit opposite Red Robin. This is actually a social signal he released, representing friendliness and acceptance.

And when the three trumpet Robins also took their seats one by one, Harley who came out last sat opposite Tim, so normally speaking, the remaining Damian and Aisha should sit opposite each other, but Damian obviously Very dissatisfied with sitting that far away.

After a period of etiquette training, Damian also knew that the vacant seat opposite Bruce belonged to Martha, so he said to Nightwing as he did many times in the Bat-Family: Let's switch places, Dick, Go and hug Aisha, didn't you say you like her very much?

And Ye Yi also instinctively stood up and wanted to make way for Damian. From his point of view, this was nothing at all. Isn't it the same where you sit and eat? But Thomas cleared his throat heavily, and Bruce also raised his eyes to Ye Yi.

But in the end, Ye Yi thought there was something wrong with him, and stood there, neither sitting nor sitting, looking very awkward.

Damian, sit in the back. Thomas raised his chin, motioning Damian to sit opposite Aisha.

As soon as Damian opened his mouth to say something, the red hood said to him: You go, who is to blame for getting up late? If you want to sit in the front, get up earlier next time.

Unexpectedly, as soon as these words came out, Thomas, Martha, and Bruce frowned.