I got married to an orthopaedic surgeon

"The authorities are confused, but the bystanders are clear. We are not Lan Lan, so we can't figure out what she thinks is normal."

As outsiders, they opened up the perspective of God, and it is easy to judge everything with rational and clear thinking.

But Zhang Lanlan is different as a person in the game. What she sees, thinks and feels is far stronger than that of an outsider. Perhaps in her feelings, Yu Yizhou is not heinous and unforgivable. After all, Yu Yizhou is really good at talking sweet words , the method of coaxing girls is not a problem, if Zhang Lanlan can't forget the sweet memories before, and her heart is entangled, it is not impossible.

Or, she has other pressures, such as the eyes of relatives, friends, teachers and classmates.

Not everyone can be strong, cut through the mess quickly, and make decisions cleanly like an iron man.

Understand other people's concerns, allow others to be cowardly, instead of opening the perspective of God, being a reasonable person, pointing fingers, and cursing.

In interpersonal relationships, the role of helping and supporting is greater than pointing and criticizing.

No one can dictate another person's life or decisions.

Take care of yourself, care about others, don't start teaching others to do things without taking care of yourself.

Shen Qingyi was full of remorse, "You little girls are all graduate students, why can't you figure out this kind of problem? The only person a woman can rely on is herself, and giving herself to herself is no more at ease than anything else? Do you have to rely on me? Is it someone else's dream? I really should have said more about her at that time, hey!"

Zhou Mo listened to him, feeling sad for Shen Qingyi.

I have to say that Shen Qingyi is a good instructor. She guides the students to relax. Most of the time, she treats the students in a state of free-range. She only sets some basic rules such as not being late or leaving early, and completing the tasks she assigns on time. If it is not good, it will be criticized, but it will not rise to personal attacks and pua.

He is also generous, and often organizes dinners for the students in the group. If there is any good thing, he will think of the students as much as possible.

When she takes care of the students, she really treats her students as her own children, instead of being muddled, letting the students mix until they graduate and get a diploma, and then there will be a lot of resentment between the students and the teacher, and they will never contact each other again.

Regarding Zhang Lanlan's matter, as a teacher, the first thing she thought of was that Zhang Lanlan, as a girl, could not give up her education, which would be of great benefit to her in the future, not for Shen Qingyi's own graduation rate indicators.

In colleges and universities, whether graduate students can graduate is not only important for students, but also for teachers, especially for masters.If a tutor can't even graduate a master's student, the teacher will most likely be looked down upon by his peers, and if it spreads, it may affect future enrollment.Whether students can be recruited is also an assessment indicator for qualified teachers. If no students are recruited this year, they may not be able to apply for enrollment qualifications next year.

It can be seen that Shen Qingyi is a good teacher with teacher ethics.

However, Zhang Lanlan wanted to drop out of school... Others could only persuade her, but had no control over it.

The final decision rests with the parties themselves.

Shen Qingyi said: "I have been in school until now. Seeing that I will come out after another two years, can't I persist a little longer? The training time for medical students is long. After five years of undergraduate studies, this graduate student will soon have a year." It’s about to pass, and there are two years left, just grit your teeth and persevere, and you will be able to pass. Is it better to graduate with a master’s degree than a Ph.D? In the future, the salary will be much higher than that of undergraduates. Hey, I really don’t know what to think.”

"We're not her either. Without her suffering, no matter how much we talk about it, it's a third perspective, and we won't be able to persuade you." Zhou Mo said.

Shen Qingyi nodded helplessly, "I hope she can get out of the psychological predicament as soon as possible. As long as she is willing to come back to school, I will always have a place for her."

Zhou Mo thought for a while and said: "Teacher, why don't you tell her these words yourself, she is a student you have admitted, and she must have the most primitive gratitude to you, and the effect of persuasion will be better than that of us classmates. better."

Shen Qingyi: "I'm definitely going to talk to her, so I can calm down when I have some free time."

Zhou Mo: "Okay."

Seeing that Shen Qingyi did not intend to give up on Zhang Lanlan, Zhou Mo felt inexplicably warm in his heart.

This group didn't come in vain.

……

night.

Zhou Mo returned to Xiangbin Yali.

Although she didn't do anything, she was still exhausted, not physically but mentally.

The phone buzzed a few times.

Sitting on the sofa, she picked it up and took a look.

It's Han Chen.

He said he would come back later at night, and let her eat first without waiting for him.

Zhou Mo was a little disappointed.

She has been living in Yuanshangju for the past few days, and finally made an appointment with Han Chen today. Both of them will return to Xiangbin Yali, but they can't even have dinner together.

Han Chen didn't say when he would be back, most likely he didn't even know when he would be back.

It might be another night of waiting.

She simply cooked scallion oil noodles for herself, and she kept a separate portion of scallion oil sauce, in case Han Chen didn't eat when he came back, she could give him an extra meal.

When alone, Zhou Mo can have no rules, and scan his phone while eating.

If she wanted to be like this on weekdays, she would definitely be lectured by Liu Xiangru.

This is why she likes to live out.

free.

While watching the video, Shen Pan's message popped up on the phone screen.

She was very excited and said: The matter is solved!I might be getting a promotion!

Zhou Mo:?

Shen Pan: The family members of the patients accepted the compensation plan, we reached a settlement with them, and the work of preventive public relations went smoothly.They were also very satisfied with the several promotional posters and videos I made for the supervisors. They also said that I have a broad mind, many plans, and comprehensive thinking.

Zhou Mo: What about the salary?Will you add money?

Shen Pan: Of course, add five hundred.

Zhou Mo: Good thing.

Shen Pan: Hey, I'm so happy.This can be regarded as the only successful thing in my unsatisfactory period.

Zhou Mo: Maybe this is an opportunity, and you will start to change your luck in the future.

Shen Pan: I would like to borrow your good words.

Zhou Mo: It's your auspicious person who has his own heaven.

Shen Pan: When I return to Dongjiang, I will treat you to dinner.

Zhou Mo: No, you should save your money.

Shen Pan: Don't worry, don't go out to eat, let's call Song Yan, and we will have hot pot together like last time.

Zhou Mo: You can have this.

Shen Pan: What about you?How are you with Han Chen?Have you two had a good time recently?

Zhou Mo: My parents are back, and I went to live in the garden for ten days.

Shen Pan: Huh?

Zhou Mo: I just returned to Xiangbin Yali today, Han Chen works overtime tonight, and I don't know when he will be back.

Shen Pan: Listening to your tone, full of resentment from a boudoir, I can tell that you miss your husband.

Zhou Mo: Fuck you!

Shen Pan: [Hey].

Zhou Mo: When will you come back?

Shen Pan: I won't go back yet.

Zhou Mo: Isn't everything resolved?Why are you still there?